tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1638762794991019015.post7648967916404347189..comments2013-03-05T00:08:52.926-05:00Comments on Fixable but Broken: Kick in the throatSusan.http://www.blogger.com/profile/09975646535590224978noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1638762794991019015.post-3544494961046983842012-04-01T21:40:35.176-04:002012-04-01T21:40:35.176-04:00Susan,
Hello again! LonelyHiker, from DF (followe...Susan,<br /><br />Hello again! LonelyHiker, from DF (followed your link)<br /><br />I know how much it sucks to feel like you didn't matter. I felt the same way, on and off, after my wife and I split. All I can say is, you just have to let it go. Yes, simplistic, cliched advice, but it's the truth. You can't waste time and energy worrying about what your ex-partner thinks (or thought) about you or the relationship. Don't give them that power! Don't let them rent space in your head! They aren't worth it. Focus on your new job (congrats, BTW!), spending time with your friends and family, maybe start a new hobby, or rekindle an old one. Take a trip you've been wanting to go on, read a book you've been wanting to read. He'll, do some volunteer work! I thought Thanksgiving was going to put me on suicide watch, but I decided I go downtown and help serve food at the community dinner. It was one of the best Tgivings I'd ever had, believe it or not.<br /><br />Anyway, the point I'm making is to keep as busy as you can. I know getting someone you've spent a lot of intimate time with isn't easy (and even harder when you have a child!), but it'll happen. Baby steps, ya know?<br /><br />I hope this helps, Susan! Things'll get better. It might not feel like it right now, but they will! <br /><br />Take care, and be kind to yourself.<br /><br />Peace,<br /><br />TimLonelyHikerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17014068791669365394noreply@blogger.com